Digital Nomads: Answers to questions about our work-life balance
April 19, 2013 in Inspiration
We get a lot of questions about how the logistics of balancing work while traveling works in our family.
The short answer: sometimes better than others!
Our travels are not a vacation and we’re far from independently wealthy, so that means that we’ve converted our careers and work as we go. This gets complicated sometimes. This post is an attempt to answer a few of the recent inquiries. If you’re interested in the tightrope walk, read on. If you’re not, there’ll be another post about lovely New Zealand within a day or so, have patience! 🙂
How do you earn a living?
We work, like everyone else! 😉 Okay, maybe not quite like everyone else, but we do work. The upside of being location independent in our jobs is that we can live and work anywhere… the down side is that we’re living and working everywhere! Basically, we converted existing skill sets and developed a few new ones to things that could be done remotely.
Specifically, Tony does database development, design & implementation for big companies you’ve heard of and iOS/Android development for small ones you haven’t. He works with a friend who is stateside and together they maximize one another’s strengths in a partnership that allows us to be out of the USA much of the time.
I write, as you already know, but not just for this blog. I write freelance within the Alternative Education and Travel markets for fun and profit. Mostly for fun. Writers don’t make real money. They do, occasionally, get to do some cool stuff and that adds to our travels sometimes.
We both average about 20 hours a week of proper “work time.”
How expensive is it to travel all the time?
This is the great, unanswerable, much debated question on travel websites everywhere. There are innumerable variables, not the least of which is how many children you have and what the teenage boy-to-normal human ratio is in the mix. Feeding just one of those creatures is enough to make a person want to move to Southeast Asia and live on noodles and Buddha sticks.
I can tell you this: Our absolute cheapest phase of travel (and most accurately tracked in terms of expenses, we documented EVERYTHING back then) was when we began, with bicycles and a year cycling (and largely camping) our way around Europe and Tunisia. We were under $100 a day for all six of us for that portion of the journey. We are able to maintain that rough budget now (even with the voracious hoard) if we stay the heck out of the first world. Thailand and Southeast Asia were kind to us, as was Guatemala and much of Central America.
Australia? New Zealand? Not so much. We’re probably spending double that in Oceania, but honestly, we’re not tracking it at the moment. Our basic budget on land and sea, at home and abroad is $3000 a month… but that’s an average, and over years, not months. If you’re asking that question to figure out how much to save for your trip, here’s my general recommendation: Make a fair budget based on your variables, not cheaping out, and then add 25% to that. Having too much money is rarely a problem… having 25% too little, will not be fun.
How you maintain internet connection to post your articles?
Ha. Maintaining internet to post articles is not the primary difficulty. It takes surprisingly little bandwidth to maintain websites and you’d be shocked at the level of connectivity that can be found even in seemingly backwater places. We’ve stayed on islands without electricity that have satellite wi-fi. No kidding. Crazy.
The real difficulty is having good enough internet to do real work over it, VPN to clients, business calls, remote server work, etc. Tony struggles with this intensely and with remarkable patience. It means that a lot of what would otherwise be billable time, is spent pulling hair out over connectivity issues. You’ve noticed his hairline, right?
What difficulties do you have with internet?
Finding it. Maintaining an adequate connection. Sharing it, when we’re working off of a phone for data, between six people (the kids use it for school and work as well.) The cost has been a surprise in Australia and NZ; where we expected it to be cheap and easy, it’s very expensive and a continual pain in the patootie. Enough whinging about that, however. There are real problems in the world!
How do you find time to write with all you do?
People have been asking me this question since my kids were small. I don’t really know how to answer it, except to tell you that writing is non-optional for me. I have to write to keep breathing. If I haven’t written about something, I haven’t thought about it yet. What people read, on websites or in magazines is about one third of my actual output. I’m writing all the time, in my head, as I walk, as we travel, while we live life. I can’t not write. I write journals. I have 2/3 of a fiction book finished that will probably never see the light of day. I write poetry. I write letters long hand to friends and draw pictures in the margins. I send postcards. I write for happiness. I write for therapy. I. Must. Write. 🙂
When do I find time for the output? Well, that’s getting easier as the kids are now self-sufficient and I haven’t tied a shoe or wiped a nose in years. I write in the mornings early and in the evenings (now!) I squeeze it in in twenty minute chunks here and there. I tend to write while the children are schooling now. We sit and work together! 🙂
More important than the writing though, is the living. I’m too busy living life, getting messy, having adventures, blazing a trail with this tribe, too write as much as I would like. Perhaps when I’m old I’ll have more time. Perhaps not. I just do my best each day.
How much time do you spend writing?
Hard question to answer… I’ve never set a timer. I think it’s safe to say that I write with purpose for at least 3 hours a day most days.
So those are the answers to the questions we have gotten about work… hopefully that helps you see the big picture better. If you have more questions, don’t hesitate to ask!
Thanks Jen! Appreciate that you took the time to answer my questions! Love the Picture! My wife and I sit side by side every day and write and develop our websites but we have a big desk. Although it is covered with papers! And we aren’t as cute as you two! Hopefully, one day before too long we will cut the cord and become “location independent” as well. 🙂
Thanks. I enjoyed this. I am trying to write with a 4.5 yr old and a 7 mth old. I can’t NOT do it, but I want to make sure I give them the attention they need. I find myself writing mostly when they are in bed asleep, but then I find that I neglect hubby 🙁 I hope to find a balance. It inspires me that you have found it.
Lesli… I wrote a lot less for the outside world when my kids were little. I didn’t start properly freelance writing until about six years ago… putting my youngest at about four, and my oldest about ten. You definitely should be investing in the kids, not in writing, primarily at the ages your kids are. Live life now, write about it later!!! And NEVER neglect The Man. It’s always been my belief that my first career is my family, my second is anything else I may manage to conjure around the margins. And I know I come from a privileged place when I say that, because The Man wants it that way and views it as his privilege to be the primary dough-raker… you have to find the balance for your family! Keep going, you’re in the hardest part of parenthood, in my opinion!
Tim, you are most welcome! That picture was taken in our lodging in Champasak, Laos (look way down south of Pakse on the Mekong River on your map) It was a good moment. There are others, that are less “cute,” as you might imagine!
Great post, Jen! I really relate to what you say. I noticed that I have much more gray hair since we are digital nomads!! And I am just like you, I write all the time. I have to have paper and a pen with me at all time and beside my bed too! And yes, those first years with babies and toddlers are tough because you pretty much have to choose between much needed sleep and writing… I am really looking forward to a post on the social life on the road/while traveling!
This is a wonderful post, Jennifer! I always enjoy hearing about the “logistics” of people’s lives – especially people who are doing interesting things. People like you. 🙂
I’m the same way about writing. I can’t NOT write. It’s just a part of my DNA.
Follow-up questions:
(1) What magazines/publications do you freelance for most often?
(2) What is the next destination on your mind?
(3) Do you miss the USA? Have you considered doing more extensive travel in North America?
P.S. Cute picture of the two of you working side-by-side!
PLEASE let us know the next time you are in Arizona or on the west coast. We’d love to have you over for dinner!
Stephanie… thanks for the invite and the solidarity in writing… I love reading your blog (I don’t read many!)
Short answers to your questions:
What publications do I freelance for most often: Boots-N-All, Travel Generation, Rolf Pott’s Vagabonding site, Homeschooling Today Magazine, Real Family Travel, Wandr’ly Magazine, and a selection of blogs keeps me busy enough. Oddly, I’m always looking for more…
What is the next destination: that has been decided, but has not been announced yet, for a variety of reasons… stay tuned!
Do we miss the USA… we miss the people!! Our friends and family in the USA and Canada are very important to us and we miss them immensely. We enjoy the time we spend in the USA and Canada, it’s such a privilege to have citizenships in free, prosperous countries. We are very thankful, but we love the rest of the world too! Eventually we’ll split our time between Canada and elsewhere.
Have we considered more extensive travel in North America… we have… Collectively we’ve been to all but one US state (Alaska… hoping to rectify that shortly) and all but five of the Canadian provinces and territories, we’ve been to every state in Mexico, lived in Guatemala for six months and have road tripped all but four of the countries in North America, so there is still a bit more to see there, but we’ve done a reasonably thorough job of our home continent!
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“How do you find time to write” love your answer! I feel the same about my photography. And what you see… maybe 2 maybe 5%. I. Must. Take. Photos. At the moment I’m instagraming because I’m not having enough time for the computer. Thanks for sharing. Hopefully we will have a location independent income soon too. 🙂